Self-respect and conveying self-esteem to your children
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blabblab1212 says:
February 8, 2012 at 8:15 am (UTC 8)
Kids respond to the crack of a whip. Fear sharpens the senses and increases alertness. Running away from a tyrannical parent is also good exercise. If the child is being beaten, they will have the opportunity? to learn basic first aid skills, such as how to stop bleeding, how to bandage bruises and wounds, etc. You have to look for the positive in things.
connerjd says:
February 8, 2012 at 8:39 am (UTC 8)
@alisonpoulsen Yes, some people feel like they have to be a? total jerk or yell at people. That isn’t always true.
alisonpoulsen says:
February 8, 2012 at 9:28 am (UTC 8)
@connerjd I agree. Positive criticism should be void of judgment. Something like,? “it would be more effective if…” “When you use that tone of voice, I feel attacked. How about just asking like this…”
connerjd says:
February 8, 2012 at 9:48 am (UTC 8)
The problem that I see is that many people are too? afraid to give criticism because they tell the difference between the positive and negative kind.
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February 8, 2012 at 10:03 am (UTC 8)
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February 8, 2012 at 10:10 am (UTC 8)
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alisonpoulsen says:
February 8, 2012 at 10:38 am (UTC 8)
Thank you for your comment. Beating doesn’t result in understanding, although it can get children to do what you want through the power of domination, fear, and punishment. But it causes humiliation, resentment, and hatred. I believe that trying to? motivate your children through understanding, example, and logical consequences is more likely to lead to self-empowerment and the ability to have fulfilling relationships based on mutual respect, equality, and autonomy. continued…
yourboycal says:
February 8, 2012 at 11:23 am (UTC 8)
What if were on an evolutionary path , wouldnt beating the children for understanding be more of an evolutionary continuitituty? Sometimes a good spanking is extactly what kids need, i grew up with so many spankings and beatings i hated it then? , but now im greatful =p
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February 8, 2012 at 11:33 am (UTC 8)
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alisonpoulsen says:
February 8, 2012 at 11:52 am (UTC 8)
Thanks HaleyMary. I appreciate? it!
HaleyMary says:
February 8, 2012 at 12:26 pm (UTC 8)
really enjoyed your? video. Thanks for sharing. :)
alisonpoulsen says:
February 8, 2012 at 1:05 pm (UTC 8)
Thank you!?
annavedo says:
February 8, 2012 at 1:17 pm (UTC 8)
You do a good job with these videos, Alison. You seem like a common-sense? practitioner of good mental health and emtional well-being. Thanks.